Zimmerman and Rushing To Judgment

31 03 2012

It is irritating when Zimmerman supporters say “wait for all the facts to come out, people are rushing to judgment.” I understand why they say this–a murder charge is a serious thing, almost as serious as being accused of racism. Being known as a murderer could significantly impact your life, your freedom, etc.

What grates are 2 things:
1) When this case first hit public consciousness, it seemed that the Sanford police were the ones who rushed to judgement when they let Zimmerman walk out of jail based on his story alone. The cries for justice (protests) were for the shooting (possible homicide) to actually be fully investigated, ahem, for all of the facts to actually be established and Zimmerman dealt with accordingly.

2) His defenders are asking us (the general public) to extend a courtesy to Zimmerman that he himself did not extend to Trayvon Martin. Zimmerman didn’t feel the need to wait for “all of the facts.” A black male wearing a hoodie in the rain (race, gender, clothing)–that was enough to warrant a call to 911. He didn’t witness Trayvon actually do anything wrong–not hiding in the bushes, not casing a house, not breaking into anything, not destroying private property, not interacting with anyone in an aggressive manner.

Why assume Trayvon was trespassing rather than visiting someone? It’s almost as if his very presence inside the community was the problem, as if no black people lived there. (But we know black people do live there and I can’t believe they all walk around in their Sunday best to keep Zimmerman from following them.)

If you think it was okay for Zimmerman to make a snap judgment about Trayvon Martin with the very few facts he had (again: race, gender, and clothing), you really have no room to complain when others make a snap judgment about Zimmerman based on the facts that we have (he followed, chased, got into an altercation with and shot an unarmed teenager).





Random Bits

11 08 2011

*A plastic bag and Saran Wrap are great for keeping a cast dry

*What would possess a man to have the faces of the 3 Stooges tattooed on his back? Then again, maybe it was a tattoo of the Pep Boys.

*Why is it that vampires foolishly leave wooden stakes is strategic spots around the castles/caves.

*If blogs/media are to be believed, black straight women want to but can’t get married and the black gay people who can get married don’t care about marriage. This is the perfect opportunity for an anti-marriage, black gay man to write a book to/for his black straight sisters: Marriage IS for White Gay People–I don’t need a husband and neither do you!

*Why is  Maybelline using the theme from Magnum PI in one of it’s commercial? I like the music–still don’t want the make-up.

*A new Hellraiser movie without the original Pin Head is like a chocolate chip cookie without the chocolate chips.

*NaNoWriMo is coming. I should start an outline. Wouldn’t hurt if I finished editing the project from last year…





What’s Wrong With Just Wright

9 06 2010

The Good

1) These folks are very, very easy on the eyes:

(Common was okay…but looked kind of scrawny next to the NBA players.)

2) The character Morgan (Leslie Wright’s best friend and the “other” woman.) She’s selfish, self absorbed, wants a human atm machine instead of a husband—but she does not come off as malicious. She’s not a Perry-esque meanie who’s goes out of her way to hurt our heroine–she has no idea that she’s the other woman. As soon as she realizes that Scott is in love with Leslie, she actually helps him find her.

The Bad

The Sex Scene was just so awkward… I understand wanting to represent for the big girls and wanting them to get some lovin’ on screen. They just looked so uncomfortable in that bed. It should have just been a generic shot of the camera panning the room with clothes strewn on the floor and then in bed cuddling asleep–with Leslie wearing a t-shirt.

The Just Wrong

Scott McKnight isn’t really that much of a catch. Yeah, he’s an NBA player and a “nice” guy—but he’s not exactly husband material. After they finally had their night of passion (sigh), all it took was Morgan showing up on his doorstep for him to kick Leslie to the curb. Later on, when he magically realizes Leslie is the one for him, he is prepared to run off without a word to Morgan. If she hadn’t got up and stood in his way, he wouldn’t have said jack to her–just ran off to find Leslie. He would have left Morgan in the studio without any idea she’d just been dumped and without a ride home.

Of course, Leslie didn’t see his 2nd “ditch a chick” episode–but the way he treated her should have been enough for her to put the breaks on his big “i love you now and want to spend the rest of my life with you moment”. She should have left him standing right there with his heart-wrenched sincerity. At the very least, she should have made him earn his way back into her heart etc.

Leslie is just so happy that someone finally (finally!) loves her that she doesn’t realize he may not actually be worthy…





Rocky Road

3 10 2009

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It’s funny to me that as his daughter grows up, Chris Rock (concerned father) will find himself having to deal with societal foolishness exemplified by Chris Rock (the comedian).

For example, I’ve only heard Rock (the comic) address black women/hair in stand-up routines in a very negative way. (ie. you got fake hair, you got fake eyelashes–and you want me to be real!) Now, we have Chris Rock doing a documentary (Good Hair) that delves deeper into black women/hair issues–because of a question from his daughter.

Rock has been a son, a friend, a boyfriend, and a husband …but it’s his role as “daddy” that inspired him see the issue in a new way. Maybe it’s because he sees her as part of himself–and not some “other” that he has to do contend with.

In any case, when she gets older–watch out Papa Rock! I think it was in Never Scared where Stand-Up Comic Rock suggested to women that, “You can’t just whip out a 40 year old titty that’s your man’s titty… 20 year old titty community titty. That’s for all to see.”

I can just envision some lecherous dudes asking Papa Rock, “Yo, Chris! Why you got your girl dressing like a nun? She needs to be showing off them community tit-tays.” I see fisticuffs in his future…

Actually, Rock (the business man) may see another opportunity in that and do a whole new documentary about street harassment/a woman’s body belonging to herself.





Buttons, boxes, and getting older…

26 09 2009

I think I’m finally starting to “feel” my age. It seems that, as far as movies go, everything that’s *new* today is just a retread or remake of something that was originally created in the 80′s .  It’s like there is a recession of ideas and studio execs are saying, “hey, why spend money on new stuff when we still own rights to this property that was a popular in 84!”

Happens in every generation–a lot of the things that were new to me in the 80′s weren’t new to my parents. For example, that great hook from Janet Jackson’s Rhythm Nation turned out to be a sample from a Sly & The Family Stone’s Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin). It feels like I’ve crossed over into another layer of the “adult” zone.

Take, for example, The Box- a horror moving coming out in November-

The Box

The thing is, I remember when this same story was an episode of the Twilight Zone (80′s version). Back then it was called Button, Button.ButtonButton

In 1984, there was V, a cheesy tv series about aliens who befriended humans…but then turned out to be not so nice.  It’s 2009, and the aliens are back.

Maybe in another 20 or so years, there will be a Rob Zombie type who wants to do a re-interpretation of Saw.  Sigh.





Fiji Water

26 08 2009

According to the Fiji Water website:

FIJI Water is drawn from an artesian aquifer, located at the very edge of a primitive rainforest, hundreds of miles away from the nearest continent.

That very distance is part of what makes us so much more pure and so much healthier than other bottled waters.

Now, can someone explain to me how this water retains its “purity” after it has been processed and encased in a plastic bottle?

According to Fiji Water: Spin The Bottle (an article in Mother Jones):

Nowhere in Fiji Water’s glossy marketing materials will you find reference to the typhoid outbreaks that plague Fijians because of the island’s faulty water supplies; the corporate entities that Fiji Water has—despite the owners’ talk of financial transparency—set up in tax havens like the Cayman Islands and Luxembourg; or the fact that its signature bottle is made from Chinese plastic in a diesel-fueled plant and hauled thousands of miles to its ecoconscious consumers. And, of course, you won’t find mention of the military junta for which Fiji Water is a major source of global recognition and legitimacy.

Wait a minute…Fijians don’t have access to this pure water for themselves?





Society Club — No Homo!

19 08 2009

Society Club wants you to know that it has a membership discount for straight families only.  Now, there’s nothing “wrong” about this–the club can decide whatever discounts etc it wants to offer and to who.

It’s certainly not the first time that we’ve been told that family=straight couple. However, there is usually a little back in forth with a business before we get to the “Oh, I’m sorry, but our discount is for heterosexuals couples only–but we will still take your money!”*

Not so with Society Club! M and my Mom went inside the club to check it out.  M asked if they had a family plan. The attendant confirmed that they did and in the same breath mentioned it was for husband and wife only. Which means 1) he saw my Mom’s short hair and assumed she was gay-she isn’t and 2) he assumed they were a couple. Danger lesbians!

Right away–he had to make sure they knew that Society Club did not consider same-sex couples ”real” families. The 2 women could have just been friends scouting out health clubs to join with their husbands, but I’m sure it was more important to neutralize any potential lesbian threat. Whew–crisis avoided.

I just have one suggestion for Society Club–why not update your website and make it clear that the”family friendly environment” is for ”husband / wife” families only?

*People always sound so regretful when they can’t recognize our civil union–but the voice always picks up/sounds optimistic again when they offer to take our money anyway.





Beware The Savage Jaw of 1984

19 07 2009

That Amazon has the ability to delete/remove ebooks you have purchased for your Kindle is disturbing.  You don’t really own a Kindle ebook–it’s just licensed to you and you have the ability to view it unlimited times, ahem, unless Amazon or a publisher changes it’s mind.

Beyond this, the fact that Amazon still has access to what’s in your Kindle has deeper implications…

Justin Gawronski, a 17-year-old from the Detroit area, was reading “1984” on his Kindle for a summer assignment and lost all his notes and annotations when the file vanished. “They didn’t just take a book back, they stole my work,” he said.

Can’t you imagine certain government security agencies asking Amazon to let them know which ebooks certain “people of interest” have bought–and hand over copies of files found on the Kindle. It would be a win-win situation, Amazon would get a chance to be patriotic and, if the POI has made any notes/annotations), the government gets to see them without needing a warrant.

Of course, the scenario wouldn’t have to play out that way. Amazon could have a backbone and demand warrants, etc.





Cleavagefield…

12 07 2009

The special effects of Cleavagefield are pretty much on par with any Sci fi Syfy Original movie.

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Cleavagefield Monster

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Malibu Shark Attack

Which is kinda sad.





Don’t wait for anybody else, ain’t nobody stopping you!

27 05 2009

To me what’s just as disappointing as the CA decision on Prop 8 are the glbt people who’s mantra seems to be: “Too bad, but I don’t agree with marriage anyway. We need to focus our attention somewhere else.”

Now, they say “we” as in the general  glbt community. But what they mean is “you who were all hot for marriage need to forget that and do x,y,z because I think there are more important things in the world.”

Believe what you want to believe and fight for what you want to fight for–but what’s the deal with belittling another person’s causes/fights? Yes, I know there were/are some same sex marriage activists who have no problem telling others that theirs is the only cause worth fighting for–they are wrong, too.

You feel a calling to tackle injustice in prisons? You want to focus on health care reform? The quest for economic justice is the driving force in your life? Who is stopping you from organizing, rallying, and taking action with those who think like you?

This whole “we need to spend resources on something else” sounds like YOU are waiting around for other people to take up your cause before you do anything. Or you are frustrated because you can’t get some attention paid to your cause.  You do realize that telling someone, especially after a setback, “your cause is stupid, you should really care about this” — is NOT going to entice that person to support your causes?

What if after a state banned  adoption by gay couples, glbt people who didn’t want to adopt said, “Too bad, but not all of us want to adopt children anyway. In fact, glbt people who adopt are just trying to fit into the hetero couple with  2.5 kids model. We should drop gay adoption as a cause…” Coldhearted, isn”t it?

The whole “you need to drop your cause” thing is also insulting because it assumes that people can’t take up multiple issues at the same time. Being an advocate for same-sex marriage doesn’t mean that you can’t rally/organize for economic justice. Newsflash–you can fight for new environmental policies to help green the ghetto and still lobby congress for prison reform.

If you’re shoulder deep in fighting for your cause but you can’t seem to get the media to pay attention, the answer is to step up your publicity game. If you need more talent, more funds, more volunteers, you need to win people to your cause–and you don’t win allies by telling people “I don’t care about what you care about, you need to be about this.”

Whew! Now back to my regularly scheduled procrastinating.








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